Monday, May 11, 2009

Survey: Do you hesitate to admit when your friends hurt your feelings, cause it makes you feel too vulnerable?

so you just say everything is okay when it's really not?


I do. I don't like feeling that...exposed.

Survey: Do you hesitate to admit when your friends hurt your feelings, cause it makes you feel too vulnerable?
So, you have been reading my mind, I see.
Reply:I usually don't because I try not to let it bother me, but if they were really really hurting my feelings, I would tell them. For me, if they're joking, but it still hurts my feelings, I just try to laugh it off. Sometimes I think if I did tell them how I really felt, then they wouldn't take me seriously.
Reply:nah ill tell them to pi** off and that they need to watch what they say and not to be so rude.


if you don't tell them they might not know.


and by you not saying nething its only hurting you more.


it feels o so much better when you speak up.


trust me i used to be quiet
Reply:I don't think anybody likes feeling vulnerable. I've done that in the past simply because I didn't want to hurt my friends' feelings. It's not something everybody is comfortable doing.
Reply:I find that you can only be hurt by those you love or respect. The others who try to hurt me are wasting their time, as I don`t really care what they think.
Reply:I have never had that problem, but if someone said something


that bothered me, I would NOT hestitate to tell them about it and see if we can't peacefully resolve the problem.
Reply:I am the same way, sometimes it is just easier to ignore it than get into the explaining the whole situation again.
Reply:I usually don't say anything at all
Reply:nope not anymore
Reply:It depends on the situation. If I'm already in a bad mood, I will tell them off friend or not.
Reply:idk....good question
Reply:Yeah, I usually just let it go.
Reply:nope
Reply:I also kinda shut my mouth. Maybe a hint, but I don't like seeming weak, but they already know it.
Reply:i'm ginda like you but if they really make me mad then i show it.
Reply:i just keep my mouth shut, i don't want to seem like I'm TOO sensitive you know?


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